How to improve my life? Many people think that they have to accept whatever life throws at them. They'll say, "This is my fate, my destiny. I cannot change it."
Of course not!
You don't have to suffer needlessly. Your destiny depends on you, not on any other external factors.
I know someone who says he just accepts what life gives him because he has done everything he can to improve it.
Guess what his lifestyle is now?
He wakes up in the morning, but can't stand, he can't brush his teeth properly, he could not relaxe in our garden, not able to chat over his smart phone, he just watches TV, love Cricket, news and then goes to sleep. Next day, the same routine cycle ensues.
Huh! Is this what he calls "doing his best"?
Sometimes he believes he has tried his best and just accepts it in his heart that this is the life that God has intended for him to live; that his luck can only change if God wills it.
But me and my family won't accept this.
Of course God wants us to be happy and live our life to the fullest, but we have to do our share of exerting the effort to live the life of our dreams.
You just don't sit around and wait for money to fall from the sky. You have to get off the couch, get your eyes off the TV screen, get your hands off the phone (unless it contributes to your success ), and get your mind and body to work!
If your life is not meant the way you want it to be, don't just say:" Our time will come." or "Things will get better some day."
Don't expect your luck to change, unless you do something about it. If something goes wrong, don't just regard it as a temporary setback; but use it as feedback. Learn your lesson, make the most of the situation, and do something to resolve the problem.
It's not enough to think positive; you also have to act positive.
If someone's life is in the trouble, do you just hope and pray that things will turn out fine? Of course not! You got to do anything you can to save the person.
So it is with your own life. It is not enough to hope for the best, but you have to do your best.
In other words, don't just stand (or sit ) there, do something to improve your life.
This is a real story of my younger brother Pratul Sharan, who had brain haemourage in Jan 2013. Since then he is lying on his bed and every day brings new challenge and hope to recover. His positive attitude is key for his recovery and I am sure he will be back with big bang.
